Stalking
Stalking is one person's obsessive behavior directed toward another person, behavior that causes the victim to fear for his/her safety. The stalker usually starts with annoying, obscene, or threatening phone calls or written communications within a short time after separation or divorce. The stalker may move from harassing communication to following the victim, and staking out workplaces and home. There may be acts of violence targeted at the victims's property, pets, and the victim herself/himself. But keep in mind that human behavior cannot be accurately predicted, so it is impossible to gauge when and if a stalker will become violent. However, remember that stalking is rooted in obsessive behavior, which in and of itself is dangerous.
What should a stalking victim do?
- Do your best to safely avoid all contact with the stalker.
- Inform family, friends, and co-workers of what is going on regarding the stalking behavior.
- Report the stalking to the police and follow their advice.
- Keep a journal or log of all staking incidents.
- Keep all letters, packages, e-mail messages, facsimiles, and taped telephone messages received from the stalker.